it’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month… and it crashes into us with the news of millions of views…

it's Sexual Assault Awareness Month... and it crashes into us with the news of millions of views of some type of online rape academy

it’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month…
and it crashes into us with the news of millions of
views of some type of “online rape academy,”
and at first, we feel rage. but then… we feel
not so surprised at all.

and it’s because we’ve already known too many
versions of this… and it feels common… and what
actually feels foreign is to even consider a world where
SA is just terrible and rare. and so i try to imagine it…
like what if we could have that world?

but then i feel more rage… because i don’t want to
just imagine it, i want it to be real. i want to live
in a world where the horrible things that we’ve
accepted as common could only
ever be terrible and rare.

– butterflies rising

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some ways i’m made of magic…

i'm passionate & creative... i'm a dancer & a writer, and i spill out all my feelings into both of those things

some ways i’m made of magic…

i’m passionate & creative… i’m a dancer &
a writer, and i spill out all my feelings into
both of those things.

i’m adventurous & spontaneous…
maybe sometimes a little bit reckless…
but i can also be really brave, and i also
dream really big.

i love being a good friend… i’m supportive
& loyal & can hold space for any version of
them. and i’m silly & fun & i’m up for
anything. and i love my friends sooo much
and so deeply… like soulmates.

…and i think all of those things make
me kind of magical

– butterflies rising

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the way we’ve just been conditioned our whole lives as girls & women…

the way we've just been conditioned our whole lives as girls & women

the way we’ve just been conditioned our whole lives as girls & women to just accept SA as an almost inevitable thing we’ll experience… it’s overwhelming to even see any consequences… like it feels foreign to even consider a world where SA is just terrible and rare… but imagine, what if we could have that world

– butterflies rising

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there will be a year when your life falls apart in ways…

there will be a year when your life falls apart in ways that make you feel like you've never been so lost

there will be a year when your
life falls apart in ways that make you feel like
you’ve never been so lost… but it’s important
that you keep going…

because there is a version of you
waiting on the other side of that journey
who knows that all of the falling apart and
burning down were clearing the way
for so much blooming.

– butterflies rising

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there will be a year when your heart gets so broken…

there will be a year when your heart gets so broken that you feel like you won't survive it

there will be a year when your
heart gets so broken that you feel like
you won’t survive it… but it’s important
that you keep going…

because there is a version of you
waiting on the other side of that journey
who is healed and free and has such
a beautiful new life to show you.

– butterflies rising

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maybe it’s not such a bad thing… having to go through someone’s walls…

maybe it's not such a bad thing... having to go through someone's walls

maybe it’s not such a bad thing… having to go through someone’s walls. like… because once you get through, you know it’s because they really want you there. and that space isn’t for just anyone… no one else could be there but you.

– butterflies rising

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this world is burning… and i want a world where it’s safe to believe in summers…

this world is burning, and i want a world where it's safe to believe in summers

this world is burning, and i want a world where it’s safe to believe in summers… safe to lay easy in the grass, light and peaceful and sunkissed, knowing the axis is tilted steady towards the good, feeling so sure that something beautiful is at the core of everything. you can feel how we’re clawing for it… but maybe someday we’ll grasp it, and we’ll live it.

– butterflies rising

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